Interview with Boudoir Divas

• How long have you been working as an escort?
  
  2002
   
  
  
• When and how did you become an escort? What motivated you to start doing it? What was your background before this work?
  
  I was dancing when I found out about this line of work. I hated dancing and pretty much sat around with clients. I liked spending one on one time instead of jumping table to table hustling for a dance. I made regulars but I just didn't like having to deal with large crowds. My friend kept telling me that his girlfriend and him used services and I would like it better. I wasn't sure about it so I never checked into it. I started dating this guy who used to work for one and he told me about it. Between him and my friend I finally looked into it and here I am.
   
  
  
• Do you like being an escort? What do you enjoy most in it? What is important and have value for you in it?
  
  I love it! I love meeting new people and it's always different. You can't get bored with this job. I love to entertain and be creative. I am more an entertainer than I was as a dancer. I have that creative side to me and I get to focus on the client instead of working a crowd. You learn so many new things on every appointment. I have learned things about the internet, horses, all the way to politics. Its nice to be able to absorb anothers knowledge.
   
  
  
• What don't you like about being an escort?
  
  I know everyone has bad days but I can't stand arrogant rude men. Men that try to control me or treat me as if I am beneath them. I won't tolerate it and will even leave. If we can't click then maybe a different girl will. That way we are both happy.
   
  
  
• What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?
  
  Well, I have allot of guys tell me that I love my job. Ofcourse what is there not to love? I hear about others wanting to rush out and obviously do not like their work. But you can't think of the whole experience work. There are so many things you can learn with everyone. Ofcourse, we work differently from others and work the same as others. If you like to be entertained and want attention, you call us. If you are looking for a wham bam thank you mam, you call elsewhere.
   
  
  
• How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
  
  I would rather them to call. Many who fill out for an appointment don't fill it out all the way so we can't do anything with their info. Also, people fill out an appointment before an hour they want to see someone. You may get lucky that we check our email immediately but we don't check our email every hour on the hour so that doesn't work. We do accept last minute appointments but they should call so we both know about it. lol. We check i.d. when we get there so you don't have to undergo any major screening that takes weeks in advance.
   
  
  
• What types of clients do you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?
  
  If a pizza man won't go there, neither will we. We are residential and hotel friendly. There are certain neighborhoods and motels we don't go to but only because it is not safe. Also, if someone is too drunk to speak over the phone, they are too drunk to see a lady. This job can be dangerous and we don't welcome bad circumstances.
   
  
  
• Do you have regular client assignments? How do you choose whom you wish to see on this basis?
  
  Yes we have regulars that call all the time. They usually call for a specific girl but we have a few that likes to use our serviced regularly and see all the ladies. We treat our regulars well. They are first priority so if they call for a specific lady and we just booked her to someone else we will call the other guy back to see if he would like to wait or see a different lady. Usually it is first come first serve but regulars are an exception. They also get special deals and discounts. Obviously they get into a VIP section of our website.
   
  
  
• When you visit a client, what kind of environment do you expect a client to provide?
  
  It has to be safe as well as clean. We don't expect their house to be in tip top shape every time but it can't be nasty. We also don't arrive at truckstops or cars. Yes believe it or not guys call trying to get someone to meet them at Walmart parking lot. lol! Never will that happen. It is all about safety as well as respect for one another. If you can't treat our ladies as ladies than you won't be seeing them.
   
  
  
• Do you have any particular requirements regarding hygiene? What are the guidelines that your client should follow?
  
  Be clean! Noone wants to see a guy that stinks or has dragon breath. Come on, be reasonable! Would you like us to come over all smelly and breathing hot gingivitis breath at you when we talk? Yuck!
   
  
  
• What are your rates?
  
  It would depend if you are hiring an escort, an escort date, a stripper or a BDSM provider. If you are hiring a date, it is a $150 flat rate. You are expected to pay for food and other charges on your date ofcourse. If you are enjoying a night at home and want an escort, it is $150 for the hour and you will have to tip ofcourse. Expect to be generous! We have upscale ladies so don't be cheap. Also, if you are out of town you will need to pay a little extra for gas.
   
  
  
• Are there additional charges for "extras"? If so, what are these?
  
  That is between you and the lady. Plus like I said, if you are out of town we may charge anywhere from 15 to 25 for gas.
   
  
  
• What payment options are available? How would you prefer the client to pay?
  
  We accept cash, credit cards, debit or travelors checks. Ofcourse everyone loves cash!
   
  
  
• How would you prefer the money to be given? Please describe step-by-step payment procedure. What guidelines should a client follow to make the payment convenient and risk-free for you.
  
  We are business first so noone has to worry about money. It makes things so much better for everyone.
   
  
  
• If you accept credit or debit cards, how will charges appear on a credit card statement?
  
  
  Kentucky Unlimited
   
  
  
• If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?
  
  Depends on the lady. You can see her wish list on her page of our website. You will also find her personal blogs, videos, and more there as well.
   
  
  
• Do you travel? If so, what does that involve on the client's part?
  
  We only service Lexington and surrounding areas. We are too busy to travel out to far sorry gentlemen. If you are ever close by, give us a call.
   
  
  
• Do you allow kisses?
  
  no
   
  
  
• If a client wants, will you engage in a role play? What kind of?
  
  Every lady is different. You can find out from her on her profile.
   
  
  
• How do you handle a situation where a client may want to get "wild and crazy"?
  
  
  Well, exactly what do you mean wild and crazy? If he is partying and out of control, we won't see him. If he is into more kinky side of the spectrum like being submissive we have a BDSM provider that takes care of that.
   
  
  
• Do you allow the clients to make photos or video recordings? If yes, on what terms?
  
  No
   
  
  
• How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?
  
  We love first timers! They are so nervous and timid, it is cute. Our ladies will take care of them and make them relax.
   
  
  
• Have you ever had experiences with disabled clients? How do you meet their special needs?
  
  Ofcourse, we treat them like we would anyone else.
   
  
  
• What are your feelings about and attitude to participating as an escort in group parties, where several escorts serve several clients?
  
  
  We do parties! We have exotic dancers for parties and we will send multiple escorts to multiple gentlemen. We do not however send one escort to multiple clients.
   
  
  
• What is your attitude towards tobacco, alcohol and drugs? Do you drink or smoke yourself? Do you allow the client to do it during your meeting?
  
  It again would depend on the lady. Some of our ladies smoke while others find it gross. Most won't care if you smoke or drink in front of them but if you get too out of control they will leave.
   
  
  
• What are the most usual types of "difficult" clients you meet? What would you like to warn them about in advance?
  
  Clients who are drunk. You have to repeat everything twenty times and those kind of clients are harder to deal with. Some even snap out of no where. That is why drinking is fine with us but when you get drunk we won't deal with you.
   
  
  
• What would happen, if at some point you or the client wished to stop the proceedings? How would you handle the issue of compensation?
  
  You don't pay if you don't like the lady we send you. If you accept her and you don't click we will send you one that you are happy with. We try to find out your likes before we send you someone out so that doesn't happen.
   
  
  
• What are the things that excite you or appeal to you when on a "date"? What turns you on?
  
  I would say all the ladies would say they like a gentleman. Personally I like guys I can cut up and laugh with. Laid back gentlemen that appreciate their time with us are the best.
   
  
  
• What are your turn-offs?
  
  Rude arrogant men. Trashy attitudes, cheap, and mean drunks. That would sum it up! Lol!
   
  
  
• What was your most funny escorting experience?
  
  There have been so many! We have had so much fun and all the girls could share so many of their stories! Answering this question would be against customer confidentiality though to some degree I would think. lol
   
  
  
• What was your most odd or weird escorting experience?
  
  Again, everyone has their own experiences. The scariest and weirdest would be my chainsaw masacre call! I went all the way out in the middle of nowhere and went on this little gravel road. At the end of it was a huge cage in front of a trailor. The cage was bigger than the trailor with a bed in it! It wasn't a chicken wire cage either. To the right was another cage that looked like a person would have to lay down in under some trees. The client expected me to go through this gate that could be easily locked behind me past all this to the left. I could feel someone watching me. I had never been so scared in my life! I left! Someone out of nowhere pulled in while I was leaving. A guy dressed up like a woman staring me down as I passed. I figured it was someone pulling up to lock the gate behind me. I am telling you that was wrong in so many ways!
   
  
  
• Hypothetical situation: your best friend, or your sister, or your daughter tells you that she wants to get into escort business. Would you encourage her to do it?
  
  It would depend on where she wanted to work. Every service is different and many couldn't give a care about you and your safety. If she were to want to work here, I would be fine with that. If I had a daughter, no way! lol I would lock her up and throw away the key! I know double standard but what can you do.
   
  
  
• If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?
  
  She would need to figure out what kind of services she wants to offer and how she wants to offer them. There are so many types of services out there to choose from. Once she figures that out, I would tell her to do her research first. Make sure the place you want to work has your best interest at heart. Also, she needs to figure out what kind of services she wants to offer and how she wants to offer them. This industry
   
  
  
• What are your hobbies and passions, things you love to do and discuss? Music genres, movies, reading preferences etc.? What other talents do you have?
  
  All the ladies are different. Some are more into shopping while others are into motorcross. I personally love to read, write, and design.
   
  
  
• What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?
  
  I wish to save up and open services all over the U.S. I am thinking of either selling them later or leasing them out. Anyone interested email me. lol! The thought of leasing them out appeal to me so I can collect checks every month and focus more on my writing. The other ladies I can not speak for.
   
  
  
• Anything else to add?
  
  If you call us for an appointment, be a gentleman. I realize that some of the gentlemen on the phone can have a bad attitude on the phone and be big sweethearts when the girl is there, or vice versa. Our receptionists won't tolerate rudeness or foul behavior on the phone, so they will not send you a girl. You have a better chance of attracting a bee with honey....
   
  
  

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