unspecific appointments

What are opinions regarding people that won't confirm to any specific times? And may choose not to meet at all in the end (sometimes with a cancellation message, often without)? In other words someone who is slow to answer emails and even then says they are not sure what time will be best for them (ie...."I'll let you know when I'm ready. Please wait by the phone!").
How about when somebody else, who will specify everything, wants to meet around the same day/time?

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If a client wont set a specific time I wont make an appointment. I've been bitten twice by clients who wont set a time. One was a regular I had seen several times and he strung me along for 3 hours. I later learned he was keeping me as "back up" while he tried to arrange an appointment with an 18 y/o.
The second set the appointment and changed the time over and over. Finally he settled on a meet at 4, then at 3:45 made it 4:30, then 5 etc. I told him I was leaving and he appeared almost immediatly like he was parked nearby. He wanted his money back when I got up to leave at the end of our time and he had only talked to me about his family.

Bottom line: No appointment time no appointment

for me, I like to keep a schedule of my appointments, therefore, I have to have a booked appointment with anyone that wants to see me.

For the classic, 'do you have anything right now?' calls, unless you have had a last minute cancellation, you wouldn't necessarily have that time available.
Most of those calls are just going through every ad until they find one that is ready.

Most of us don't sit by the phone and wait for it to ring, we screen our clients for compatibility and then decide if we are going to take that client on.
I also will not message anyone that tells me to get a hold of them when I have the time! I will, however, confirm an appointment time the day before the scheduled appointment, just in case the client has had something come up, or has a work schedule that has him in circles.

I do ask for at least 24 hours in advance if possible, and I know that this is not always possible, but you have to remember, that we also have a life outside of this.
Hair, nails, beauty, clothes shopping, dry cleaning, all take time out of our schedules, we do have a life.

Unspecific appointments do not happen in my book, if you stiff me more than once without the courtesy of at least a text or email to cancel, with apologies, you do not get the pleasure of my company.
I know that emergencies come up, but if you are going to be late (clients) at least have the courtesy to let the sp know that.
We cannot assume anything.

Not usual for me to see Momma face....I usually look at simple classy face flying to anywhere

This is why I prefer to make ALL arangement well in advance of my arrival!

I alway try to make my appointments 24 hrs in advance but if I am traveling I will send the lady a copy of my reservation and see that I will be there when I say. Today was the first time I called a escort, I have seen before, and was told she was taking the day off. I have cancelled an appointment because I got sick and did not want the lady to get sick as well.

One of the people I used to work with would come in sick and get everyone ill. His reasoning was: He was saving his sick leave so he could get credit for time when he retired. I told him the next time he came in sick and gave it to everyone I was going to charge all absences to his sick leave and he could not prevent me from doing it. He quickly learned that an obscure Union Rule allowed me to do that. He never came to work sick, again.

People whom intentionally, inflict an illness on others are Rude and Uncaring. It should be against the law.

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I'm a firm believer in taking care of ALL financial details & travel plans in advance of my arrival. This is for my benefit as well as the lady's convenience. It's not only proper, but respectful as well.

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