Initiating SEX

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost five years. My problem is that I don’t like initiating sex but he wants me to. I want to so I please him, but I just can’t make the move. It’s like something is stopping me. Half of me wants to but the other half won’t make a move. I don’t know what to do.

Try to swap the roles. Create a situation when it won't be really clear who is the initiator. It is hard, but when the beginning is easy?
:) It is worth, sure!

Yes, it's worth the efforts anyway. You cannot even imagine how woman domination can arouse a man, doesn't matter if he is a macho or a sissy! You see how popular are dominatresses, it isn't only a men's keenness. You say that half of you wants. Great, just let this half to come over you. A possible way of beginning is to try a cowgirl position but be passive and let your boy to move you as he wants, until you are overcome with IT. Cheers!

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I am neither a sissie nor a macho, but if you want to turn a nerd to a macho boy, you should follow the advices of both guys. Initiating sex is hard only when beginning and is always rewarded after all.

I don't think it should B up to one sex to B the initiator...rather, both the man & woman should B confident enuff in their own sexuality to go for it & to please their partner.

hey guys......... all u guys say is ture if askin me .... as 4 me im the one who starts the moon been like that since day 1 ....since we started here things has changed a bit 4 the better its hot 2 watch all go down its an honor 2 be a part of it... im thankful.... AND Bianca88 Holy that 1st review of yours ,,,,Ouch! :)

I really get turned on when a woman initiates sex. It makes me super hard and horny. Something about a hot babe ripping MY clothes off and zeroing in on my cock! A+!

I love it when a woman tells me to get down and kiss her pussy!

I actually would start by giving my man wet sloppy blow job, then moving to the deepest deep throat!!!! That is how you should start! Try it in the morning while he is sleeping. Wake him up with an image of you sucking his dick!!

It would'nt bother me if the lady took the lead in starting things. Actually, I think it'd B a turn-on. I think a woman's self-confidence is KOOL! Wotever each is comfortable with as there's NO set guide lines for beginning sexual activities. I think showering together is a ton of fun as it prepares us to B comfortable w/each other. I also enjoy meaningful conversation.

Squirtingnymph, thank U for Ur input.

Agreed with some of the replys, start sucking his cock an maybe slip your middle finger in his ass, feels fantastic!!

It really excites me when the guy initiates the deed or when he makes the first move but doing the same thing makes me feel bored or shall I say, the excitement is fading, so I think it would be kind of different if I suddenly initiate the foreplay and light on the fire before it starts burning.